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Category Archives: Life as a Wedding Officiant

Your Seattle Wedding Day: Create a Day Around What Is Truly Important…

Written on July 5, 2016 at 1:48 pm, by

I’m at home after a big Fourth of July wedding weekend. I’m tired and I’m happy.  Lovely couples were beautifully married and all went well. As I reflect on the weekend, I know one thing:  after so much anticipation to a wedding day, it’s important to remember what is important.  And what really doesn’t matter.  Continue Reading »

The Beautiful Wedding of Chad + Alex: Sweetly Married At The Woodmark Hotel In Kirkland…

Written on June 20, 2016 at 2:39 pm, by

It was great happiness for me to be a part of Chad and Alex’s wedding ceremony on May 29th at the lovely Woodmark Hotel. I could not have been happier when Alissa from Maris Events called me to set up a meeting.  And when I sat down with Alissa, Chad and Alex, it was kind of  Continue Reading »

When It Is Killer Hot Outside For A Seattle Wedding Ceremony, Let’s Talk About Shade…

Written on June 7, 2016 at 11:16 am, by

As I write this, it’s warm outside on this Tuesday morning here in Seattle. And over this past weekend in the Pacific Northwest, it was HOT.  Seriously, HOT.  Way too hot to be married in the full-out sunshine. Some couples decide to get married in the sun.  When it gets into the 80’s and 90’s,  Continue Reading »

Brenda and Cosdyn’s Wedding Day At The Salish Lodge…

Written on May 23, 2016 at 11:56 am, by

I was with Brenda and her lovely ladies just before she walked down the aisle to marry her love, Cosdyn, at The Salish Lodge last weekend.   It was happiness for me to share in Cosdyn and Brenda’s wedding day.  And more so because this beautiful and gracious couple came to me via Danielle (Brenda’s Maid  Continue Reading »

A Seattle Home Wedding: A Happy Trend For Couples…

Written on April 25, 2016 at 11:11 am, by

Susan and Richard totally got things right on their wedding day. They were married at their home in Seattle on a spectacular April afternoon, surrounded by 50+ happy family and friends.  Or as Richard shares, ‘after 16 years together, it’s about time!” In creating their ceremony and celebration at their beautiful home, Sussan and Richard  Continue Reading »

Real Seattle Weddings: Smart Ceremony Tips from Wonderful Couples

Written on April 4, 2016 at 4:09 pm, by

I’m often asked, ‘what do you most remember from a wedding ceremony?’ As I look back over the past couple of weeks, here you go!   ~ Tony & MarPhillia: I was so taken with MarPhillia’s wedding vows.  Her words were so gorgeously crafted and her delivery was one-of-a-kind.  Tony’s vows were a bit more  Continue Reading »

Mikey, Sam and Sally: The Sweetest Wedding At The Salish Lodge

Written on March 14, 2016 at 10:20 am, by

There are moments around this wonderful and crazy work that I do that deeply touch my heart. There are moments that remind me why I do this work.   Yesterday, at the Salish Lodge, I had a great joy of officiating Mikey and Sam’s wedding ceremony. In attendance, as flower girl, ring bearer, wonder dog  Continue Reading »

Your Seattle Summer Wedding: Tips To Avoid Puget Sound Traffic & Timing Wedding Day Snafus!

Written on February 15, 2016 at 10:25 am, by

If you are planning a summer wedding in Seattle, be “traffic savvy” to avoid traffic and/or timing issues that may create unexpected problems on your wedding day. Here is a “crash course” to help you navigate heavy summer car and ferry traffic in Seattle as you put together the time line for your wedding events  Continue Reading »

The Freaked Out Bride: Navigating A Tsunami of Life Change with Smarts and Grace..

Written on February 4, 2016 at 11:59 am, by

Freaked out. This is how a bride of any age may feel on the way to a wedding day. Some women feel it more than others. And some never get to the “freaked out cliff.” If you are an engaged woman and are feeling like you are “losing it” or are getting caught up in  Continue Reading »

Mark and Jereme Wed At The Salish Lodge…the Best Dove Release Ever!

Written on January 25, 2016 at 11:24 am, by

Look at these wonderful faces!  Two very loving, gracious and inspiring men, were married at The Salish Lodge this past weekend and with one of the best dove releases ever.   It was my happy pleasure and delight to join Mark and Jereme in marriage. Surrounded by their family and friends (seriously, some very fun friends!),  Continue Reading »

Seattle Wedding Planning: Crafting and Designing Your Memorable Northwest Wedding Day…

Written on January 13, 2016 at 2:09 pm, by

You are planning your 2016 Seattle wedding ceremony and celebration! As an excited and enthusiastic engaged couple, you have a big variety of choices and decisions to make around the size, design and scope of your wedding ceremony and celebration. If you are in the beginning stages of planning your wedding or have been in planning  Continue Reading »

Seattle Holiday Weddings 2015: What I Remember…

Written on January 4, 2016 at 3:59 pm, by

Traditionally, Christmas week is quiet for weddings in Seattle. In Seattle this year (I’ve heard this from wedding planners, too), there has been a tiny “gold rush” of weddings.   Congratulations to: John and Ying (Ray’s Boathouse), Catrina and Patrick (Tibbetts Creek Manor), Trisha and Nancy (Beecher’s Loft). Much happiness to: Jim and Sheryl (Bainbridge  Continue Reading »

Chris and Kelsey: Raindrops, Lake Union Vistas & Sweet Ceremony Moments on Seattle’s MV Skansonia…

Written on December 6, 2015 at 7:46 pm, by

I loved every moment of working with Chris and Kelsey.   This gracious, fun-loving and very devoted couple was married last month on the MV Skansonia, which is moored in Seattle at Lake Union. The Skansonia was a perfect venue for Chris and Kelsey, two love birds who designed a ceremony and celebration which not only  Continue Reading »

Wedding Dog Buster: A Handsome Little Dude Who Sparkled Up Michael and Donna’s Wedding Ceremony…

Written on November 30, 2015 at 3:00 pm, by

I’m one of those “dog people.”  If I see a dog on the street or at a park, I have to admire it, talk to it, give it a rub or a hug or most likely chat up the Guardian.   So, when Michael and Donna told me that their beloved dog, Buster, would be the  Continue Reading »

Darroch + Julia: I Have Known This Beautiful Bride Since She Was Knee High!

Written on November 16, 2015 at 4:53 pm, by

It is such extra happiness for me to share in the wedding day of someone I know well and/or have known since they were a child. On this past blustery and windy Saturday afternoon at Hidden Meadows in Snohomish, I had the honor and delight of joining Darroch and Julia in marriage.   I have known Julia’s  Continue Reading »

A Beautiful Fall Wedding for Chad and Amanda at Everett’s Monte Cristo Ballroom

Written on November 7, 2015 at 11:33 am, by

When I arrived last night to officiate Chad and Amanda’s wedding ceremony, I was first so very taken with Amanda’s gorgeous wedding veil.   While this photo doesn’t do it justice, Amanda’s veil was floor length, vintage, creme and with intricate and delicate lace. And I found out that if this veil could talk, the stories  Continue Reading »

An Officiant’s Reflection on a Seattle Wedding. In Jail.

Written on November 2, 2015 at 1:26 pm, by

I received the most precious thank you note.  From a bride named Andrea.  Months ago, she was married to her Sweetheart at the King County Jail in downtown Seattle. I remember Andrea’s call to me.  She was in tears because she couldn’t find an available Officiant to deliver a ceremony at the jail on a  Continue Reading »

What Do I Remember From A Wedding Ceremony? You May Be Surprised To Learn This…

Written on October 18, 2015 at 4:03 pm, by

I always tell my couples the same thing, over and over again:  “Trust me on this, it will be amazing what you will remember from your wedding day…how little things will become the big things that stand out in beautiful ways.”   And so, as I look back on the past couple of weeks, I  Continue Reading »